With online dating, getting into a relationship is as easy as reciting the alphabet to a kindergarten kid. However, when the time to meet physically comes, the story may be different. It is not like when simply chatting. Sometimes it feels like the dating pool is filled with too many frogs. This gets many into confusion about what women want in a man.
A relationship is a dual way. There is what you look for and what your partner wants. These two, not related individuals, must come to terms with a relationship to be established. According to counselor Suzanne Degges, any relationship is built on simple, down-to-earth qualities that enable long-lasting marriage.
Although there are no women who share equal tastes and preferences, there are common qualities that women want from a man.
Confidence
Confidence appeals to women. It’s demonstrated from the way a man exudes his attitude. While there is a difference between confidence and ego, women ate men who display self-inflated ego. Men who think they are the most important in the world.
Integrity
A man of integrity is someone who shows strong moral character. Women have a desire for men who are fair, ethical, and honorable. With this key character, comes a strong bonding between husband and wife that comes up with other numerous benefits to the marriage.
Compassion
A compassionate man is a magnet for women. They want a man who shows empathy and understands another person’s feelings, expectations, and hopes. They need someone who can open up and share their vulnerabilities, feelings, and experiences.
Emotional availability
Men who open up about their feelings on relationships attract women more than those who choose to bottle up. With such, you can emotionally support your woman in times of need. Although this may look weird at first, it is important to display your vulnerability to create an environment for a relationship.
Respect
A man who shows respect for women, friends, and relatives won’t go unnoticed. Women want a man who has respect. This quality is the pillar of every relationship. Without this, she will leave you sooner than later. Women do not want heartbreak. Therefore, any man who doesn’t show this quality would be dropped.
A sense of humor
You don’t need to be a joker or entertainer all time to make someone laugh. Every woman wants a man who can make her smile, and share light and interesting moments. Scientific evidence established that a man who exudes happy, lighthearted, and positive energy into the world will make a woman want to be around him. Laughing is in itself an expression that means two people share perspectives, values and what amuses. But when a man puts on a rough face all time, it limits sharing.
Protectiveness
This is one of the non-negotiable qualities a woman wants in a man. She simply desires a man who makes her feel safe anytime you are together.
Maturity
Displaying this character is what can be a summing-up feature that women look for in men. You show this by thinking rationally, not overreacting, and solving problems together after careful discussion. Again, it should not prevent you from having fun moments and entertaining yourselves.
These qualities do not accommodate everyone, it’s a common ground for all. Customized qualities are there a woman may look for in a man. You have to understand yourself and know what you desire as that is the key to a relationship. This article is an extension of the previous one.
